Prayers for my dad

[Real Bad Attitude]

It all started just before Thanksgiving, my dad came down with diverticulosis. Had to be rushed to the emergency room, spent 4 days there while they pumped him full of antibiotics. They told us that a small part of his colon would need to be removed, but they wanted to wait until it settles down. Well 2 more trips to the emergency room and the last time they said he needed to be operated on. That was on the 17th of December. Had a lot more removed then the anticipated. And had to have a colostomy bag. We all thought great he would heal and be back on his feat. Well he’s never gotten out of the hospital, or the bed. One thing after another set him back. Staph infection, fluid in his stomach and lungs. He had the fluid removed, but it's back once again. Now his one lung is collapsing. Doctor's are puzzled about what is going on. Got a call from my sister today and told me that Hospice is coming in to talk with us about his condition. And she mentioned that a nurse came in today to draw blood and my dad said no, no more of this. Sounds like He's had enough. I can't blame him. If I was in that condition I would of given up a long time ago. So I need some prayers sent his way. It’s been a very hard time for my family and myself these past 2 ½ months.

[Nouroog]

I'm not the praying type, but I'm certainly sending out the best thoughts I can. Sorry to hear you're going through this.

[Scratch33]

Good thoughts to you & your dad, RBA.  

[Tar Snake]

My prayers go out to you.

If it means anything to you, my Mom died in a hospice and it was so much better than a sterile hospital room. They went out of their way to accomdate our family and we stayed around the clock.

Gave us a chance to pour our hearts out and say goodbye.

As sad as death is, you know it's coming do what you have to do for him

Best Wishes

[fasterbusa]

My prayers go out to you and your father.

[phoenix]

I got some shitty news about my dad recently, but not quite as bad as your situation. Sucks. Really really sucks.

So, I feel your pain RBA. Here's wishing for the best outcome, whatever that may be.

[stewm_21]

I'm also not the prayer type but my best thoughts and hopes go to you and your family at this difficult time.  Take care of each other and take care of yourself.

Stew

[photomd]

I'm sorry to hear about your father: very sad.

Here's to hoping for a peaceful outcome.

I'll keep ya in my thoughts and prayers.

[bahwolf]

I'm very sorry to hear about your Dad.

[traveler]

I feel your anguish over you dad's condition. My father went several torturous years in hospitals, long term nursing home, dialysis centers and finally back home (his wish) to hospice care and the end. I was there with him, and have never forgotten his last couple of days (much less his last decade).

I personally could never have lasted as long in such a condition, and was actually happy to hear of his decision to put an end to his own suffering. He died with courage and dignity, having made his choice, and with family present.

The people from the hospice organization were wonderful, and their compassion and understanding made the final hours bearable.

Best wishes to you and your family.

[Bunbun]

You got it.  Take care of him, your family and yourself.

Bun

[L8RGYZ67]

I'm so sorry about the troubles with your dad. I don't pray much anymore, but I'm sending one up for him.

[Rincewind]

Peace to you and your father.  

[FJRmgm]

sorry to hear about this for all involved.

Nothing like a chronic illness, pain or problem to totally sap one's desire to continue.

[bomber]

my family's thoughts are with yours, bud -- stand tall, they need you . . ..  

[shah269]

my thoughts are with you. I wish you great strength in this situation.
Nothing is worse than standing there and not being able to help.
Stay strong, stay brave, stay calm.

[Hondagrl]

So sorry to see your dad is going through this.  Well...I am the praying type, and I will do so for you.  

Carpe Diem.......

[Flyer]

He sounds like a strong man, trying to be very strong.
It must be a great comfort to have you there.
Lucky man...

[toddrod]

Sorry to see that your family is having a difficult time. Stay strong and hang in there.

[TorC]

Thoughts with you and your father during this trying time.